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my turn to bitch.

As I mentioned before I had a herniated disc around my L5-S1 vertebrae. I had to get surgery, which took place on Friday.

I have to say I am very disappointed with a lot of people. I just started hanging out with a girl named Megan.
She came over on Sunday and hung out with me for a little while.
One of my good friends Stacy made plans to come hang out for a little bit on Monday and bring me lunch. A buddy of mine from work, Amos, came over Monday around lunch time and helped me fix something with my laptop, needless to say we made Stacy bring him lunch too :)

So Monday I asked Andy, one of my best friends, if he would pick me up a mouse for my Snake so he doesn't starve, and he brought it over. He ended up staying for a tiny bit and hanging out.



Other than that only like 3 or 4 people have called to see how I'm doing. A few others have text me. Any other "how are you doings" came via facebook or myspace.

This is really kind of depressing.... I don't care how fucking busy my life is if one of my friends had the surgery I had and couldn't do anything, were stuck on their couch for 2 weeks maybe longer I would take time to go visit them. The first couple days out of the hospital are when you need someone the most. when you are too sore to move, too sore to reach for the medicine bottle and water so that you can take the meds to relieve the pain.

I'm glad though. Now I know what friends of mine I will visit when they need me.


This isn't really bothering me all that much. I'm very cold and independent. I'm writing this because if your friend has surgery or something, make sure you are there for them. and don't just say "if you need anything let me know" go fucking visit them and make sure they are doing ok, make sure they have someone there for them.

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andromeda_77
Sep. 24th, 2008 02:32 am (UTC)
Holy Shit - you had surgery?! Like...what happened??
yairgo
Sep. 24th, 2008 02:34 pm (UTC)
I hurt my back on a float trip. It was kind of tight the next week but i played softball Tuesday, Wednesday, and Friday. Then I was supposed to play on Sunday, but i wasn't going to, until we only had 10 people including me show up. So I hadnt stretched out or anything and then I had to make a play that made me twist my back really hard and ended up herniating a disc really badly :/
sostrungout
Sep. 24th, 2008 03:15 am (UTC)
awww i woulda come visit you!!
yairgo
Sep. 24th, 2008 02:34 pm (UTC)
lol thanks :)
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